January Small Stones # 17

School’s In

The state school kids walk down the                            Independent school children slide

hill their uniforms ‘customized’ to                                from Range Rovers, Mercedes and

define their identity, identically                                    more, driven up the hill by a parent,

individual. Girls with ruler straight                              they wait patiently for the boot lid to

hair, darkly lined doe eyes and thick                            open automatically, thus saving the

foundation, pert breasts forced                                     energy it takes to lift it. Their

skywards under polo shirts with St                              discreet sports bags are smart and

Someone’s embroidered. Boys                                      unmarked. The senior boys look like

hiding school clothes under hoodies,                            daddy clones, in navy blazers, beige

pushing the boundaries of accepted                             chinos immaculately pressed, ties

footwear. Some of each gender                                      perfectly ordered around proud

brazenly taking the odd puff of fag.                              necks. Pink cheeked girls, knee

Boys shove their mobiles in their                                  length skirts, tidy hair and not a

back pocket; girls show theirs off                                  smudge of lippy anywhere. The

while they Facebook and tweet.                                    occasional middle nowhere voice of

Check out the street corners, you’ll                             mummy, ‘Darling, please don’t

see some Good Morning gropes.                                   forget the Humphrey-Pococks

Hugs or fights.                                                                  are dining tonight.’

13 thoughts on “January Small Stones # 17

  1. Oh this is such fun Gilly, and so nicely observed. I do love the up and downness of it all. It works even better in email. It’s like a puzzle there that I enjoyed working out. May I send you a copy?

    1. Hahaha thanks Isobel, my friends has just shown me how it arrives in an email – a mess!!! serves me right for trying to be clever – I formatted it in two columns as a word document and then copy/pasted. It turned out in two paragraphs with a big gap between so I then created new line ending and did a whole load of cut/pastes! It will probably put most people off so thanks for your patience! I think it looks as its supposed to in the blog 🙂

  2. Brought my son to school yesterday after a long weekend. It feels great as a parent to bring him to school everyday. Lately he wants me to bring him inside his school holding my hand and all. Lucky me. He’s only six. I know one day when he grows up he would say, “dad, wait for me in the car,” when he’s around his cool friends. Precious times we need to savor as much as we can. Wonderful post. Reminds us all of how we were once in school uniforms, minus the cellphones, facebook and tweeter! Have a blessed day!

    1. Ah enjoy your little boy while he’s so young they grow up so quick, I can’t believe my kids are in their thirties already. How times have changed, I had a neat school uniform, a satchel and would be in big trouble if I forgot anything. We didn’t even have a landline at home and had to go to a call box for a telephone! Simple times! Thanks for visiting me!

  3. hello!
    loved every word!
    since i’m in the States, I have a few questions about the types of schools. I’m assuming independent schools are analagous to our ‘private’ schools, where tuition is paid? when you say “state” schools I was a tad confused so would love to know how your system functions? Here, we have public schools run by city or county districts but there are no dress codes. (in this country with rare exception, the Catholic schools are the only edu institutes requiring uniforms; they have Saint names and are run by church dioceses seperate from the state)

    1. Hi Karen! We have state schools which are free to all and the majority of children attend these. Independent, private or public schools are all fee paying and they usually have some sort of entrance exam as well (to make sure there is some hope of maintaining there high GCSE and A level results and consequently University entrance). They often produce a very different breed of kids! Virtually all schools have uniform as its seen as a leveler, but often teenagers will have their own interpretation of how they wear them. In a few places there are still exams at age 11 to stream off the brightest kids for grammar school (I went to one) but these are becoming more unusual. We also have some Church aided schools which can be fee paying or mainly state funded.
      Thanks for visiting me and i’m glad you liked it! 🙂

      1. hey, thank you!!! you explained that perfectly for me! One of the things I like most about blogging is connecting with international people….really helps round out the knowledge base!

        thanks for checking back on the comments too, btw….seems not alot of people do it very often!!

  4. I also love the connections I’ve made around the world, it makes blogging such a rich experience! I always read my comment and try to respond but it does become difficult to keep up as you grow!

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